3 Out Of 5 Are Lonely

May 22, 2020May 22, 2020

“More than three in five Americans are lonely, with more and more people reporting feeling like they are left out, poorly understood and lacking companionship ….. Loneliness appeared to be more common among men. The survey found 63% of men to be lonely, compared with 58% of women..” Quote from an NPR Article by ELENA RENKEN January 23, 2020 6:00 AM ET

You cannot eat your cake & still have it. You cannot shut yourself away from sharing quality time, having conversations & interacting with others and at the same time complain of or endure loneliness.

Since loneliness is a craving to have right & intimate relationship, at the right time, solution is found in you opening up your space, mental & physical, for others to intrude into.

Part of the solution is also to create the time to invest yourself by intruding into others spaces too. It is from the abundance of conversations & interactions that one can prune down productive from non-productive relationships. You cannot shut everyone out & not be lonely. Push yourself to engage in relationships with people, known & unknown.

Since you are not perfect, you should create room for others, who are imperfect, to come around you. Cut people a lot of slack. Expect them to be faulty humans. Develop yourself to accommodate the good, the bad & the ugly. If God can tolerate you, why would you not attempt to tolerate fellow people, by letting them keep you busy & amuse you with their behaviors/misbehaviors.

“In-person connections are what really matters,” says Doug Nemecek, chief medical officer for behavioral health at Cigna. “Sharing that time to have a meaningful interaction and a meaningful conversation, to share our lives with others, is important to help us mitigate and minimize loneliness.” NPR ORG Article by ELENA RENKEN January 23, 20206:00 AM ET

“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” Genesis 2:18 (KJV)

God said that scripture when there was only one individual on the surface of the earth. There are 7 billion people now. Make yourself available to other human beings. Be help suitable for someone/others. Allow someone/others be help suitable for you!

No human being is structured to be complete alone. It is not good for any man or woman to be all one (alone). Being all by yourself has its good part. Loneliness is when you are too much by yourself.

Make a choice to surround yourself with people or get one truly intimate one out of the many people around. Every relationship can hurt very deeply. Get yourself healing balms. It is better to be hurt and get healed than to suffer loneliness & depression. Loneliness affects more than mental health. It affects your entire well-being.

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13 Relationship Nuggets – Hard Truths People Hate To Learn

May 19, 2020May 19, 2020

God never promised us perfect relationships!
EVERYONE is a DAMAGED PRODUCT from BIRTH. We all need acceptance & help from others who would genuinely choose to give it all it takes! You are well-suited to HELP HEAL ANOTHER person!

Relationships fail when people choose NOT to mature. Immature people avoid reconciliation! It is immature to avoid healing of fractured emotion! The immature shuts-down communication that could help work out relationship differences!

It Is IMPORTANT To Be Involved In Improving Others! Life is usually miserable for those who prefer to eliminate others so as to promote LONE ambition! It is better to build LOVE someone or participate in building a LOVING community! Depression & suicide could be hard to contemplate when working hard at practical goals to help improve others!

Value others’ lives! You are not better off having others SUPPRESSED while you sit on top of the relationship pack. It creates tensions for you. If you love manipulation & excessive control, it would only backfire. Your insecurity, anxiety, worries & stress will multiply!

There is health in JOY! Joy is what you get when your investment in someone else results in smile, radiance & happiness. Give JOY & expect to get JOY back. Invest in a partner’s joy, in due time, God will satisfy & supernaturally return your joy, especially when you do it in God or Christlikeness!

No one make it in life without others! No one is without enemy! Not all adversaries can be destroyed! Grow up! Accommodate others! Give reasonable room for faulty people! Hopefully they learn right lessons from you before too long or too late!

Pathways of happiness, success, promotion & victory are littered with faulty folks who test tolerance limits. Build relationships! Everyone including yourself is a work-in-progress. Some difficult people are in place to improve your needed love capacity & human development relationship skills! No organization, entity, government or society develops without excellent people-management skills!

Life is about people! You only thrive in life to the extent you engage true LOVE to accommodate others regardless of prevailing faulty nature!

True LOVE is a spiritual ability that can be grown to increase emotional capacity for accepting others through high tolerance of their obvious deficiencies & non-obvious tendencies.

Life & relationship becomes stress-less when you master human-beings’ tripartite nature. Everyone can be Mental-nuts. Prepossessed. Divine-wrecks.

Again, nearly everyone is a “MENTAL CASE” with Caged Mindset, Preprogrammed Attitude & Lacking Divine Control! We all have to learn To Live With At Least One Such Individual! It could be a friend, a spouse, a partner or colleague!

God created human relationship to establish balance & order through companionship. An average person hates to be balanced/ordered!

Yeah! Celebrate singleness all you want. You were not created to be single but to actively work-out an intimate relationship! Haa!

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The Powers Of A Vagina

March 22, 2017March 22, 2017

Now I understand how this kind of topic will attract attention. Many would be curious to know what a gospel minister has to say about such subject without giving people dirty pornographic ideas. A vagina is the unique organ that separate and distinguishes a male from female. It is probably a taboo word that may be too sacred for pulpits or a gospel minister to utter. So while it is an ignored word in religious rooms, it happens to be the foremost front lobe picture on the foreheads of many male adults who visit those rooms weekly. It is also a point of veiled fashion discussions that determines how the female is covered or sit in churches. A vagina, and its use or abuse, is the defining factor for sins like fornication, adultery, masturbation and other Bible defined sexual immoral acts. While this writing is not going to address physiological or biological characteristics of the most-guided feminine private part, it is set out to address its importance to life in general. So, a vagina is a:

Life Giver – for receiving spermatozoa and birthing a new life or baby
Life Taker – for those who are misguided and lack self-control of its insatiable, addictive powers
Life Enhancer – for those who appropriately engage in permitted sex as a necessary life tonic
Life Destroyer – for those unrestrained, who are lured into its unchecked control and manipulative use
Life Motivator – for those who are encouraged by its self-reassuring love, unity-in-agreement use
Life Depressor – for those who are deprived of its exciting and refreshing regular use
Life Fragrance – for those who carry a glow around by it satisfying performance
Life Odor – for those who engage in its misuse and abuse

It is hoped that young and older women who retain their God-given and mostly sought-after genital realize how important it is to use it responsibly, for positively molding, constructing and reconstructing a man’s life. And, it is hoped that it is not carelessly made available for penetrations that negatively pulls a life’s potentials down. And for those who maintain exclusive reserve of it, seeking to be single for life, it is hoped that they have a re-think to submit and yield its constructive powers to a caring man, under God’s rules, even if the man is not close to being Mr. Perfect. It is also hoped that young or older men understand how the use or abuse of their easily-nudged up probing prickly penis is more than a quick-fun tool. Getting into a vagina engenders consequences and it must only be engaged with a deep sense of responsibility. Most men get easily consumed by passion to quickly insert and release into a woman, that they rarely remember the actual impact on a woman’s emotion afterward and other subsequent implications. That is why sex should be engaged in, after genuine consenting communication, with understanding of attached emotional responsibilities, under God’s principles, in commitment-secured relationships and not flippantly nor casually. The prayers for widows, widowers, those who suffer impotence, and others, who for some germane reasons are unable to use their life-all-important organ, is that God comfort and give you your own solution, as soon as is possible. I pray in JESUS name. This message encourages immature readers to wait patiently until they are matured enough know the responsibilites attached to using a reproductive organ. Sex is for those who understand positive use of the important factors highlighted in this writing. So how could pulpits have ignored addressing issues relating to this all-important life-shaping feminine organ and expect to be taken seriously enough by the larger societal audience. Please do not be shy to SHARE this enlightening message with others. May God help us all with true LOVE in this life, and with more LIFE in our LOVE! Click On Below To Learn More About 12 Insights & Prayers For A Stronger & More LOVING Woman